Self-assertion, charity, attitudes—we all have them. They strengthen and reinforce us, make us who we are. But how often do we rely on these inner strengths, our very own helpers, without ever letting them have their say? In 35 letters about life, Udo Hüttmann's attitudes, convictions, and abilities now turn to him – addressing him directly and seeking discussion. This does not always happen without conflict – because every relationship has its little struggles, the search for balance between the needs and wants of the partners, in order to ultimately find a common ground. It is the same with us and our inner helpers.