We all have secrets. But according to psychologist Justin Pearce, it's not the secret itself that hurts us—it's the thinking about it. In "The Weight of Silence," Pearce explores the cutting-edge research on the psychology of secrecy. He argues that secrecy is not a social act of hiding things from others, but an internal act of wrestling with information alone. The book reveals that the average person keeps 13 secrets, five of which they have never told a living soul. Pearce explains how the cognitive effort of monitoring these secrets leads to "mind wandering," reduced well-being, and even physical feelings of heaviness. "The Weight of Silence" offers a path to relief without necessarily confessing everything to everyone. Pearce distinguishes between "good secrets" (surprises) and "toxic secrets" (shameful acts) and shows how finding a neutral confidant or even writing the secret down can break the cycle of rumination.